The first step to take in this endeavor is to find a speed dating service that offers these events in your area. This way, you can meet other singles in your area that you may otherwise not bump into. This increases the chances of you meeting that special someone. Next, find a speed dating service that offers special targeted events. Sure the time is short, but it does give the guy or girl an opportunity to talk to someone he or she likes. The speed dating environment is also less noisy than those of bars and clubs. In speed dating, you and your partner will have a better environment to have a good conversation compared to clubs where the music is always roaring and constant interruptions from people. After which, if registrations show that certain couples agree altogether to arrange for a next meeting, because their "yes" signals did matched, they'll be advised thru e-mail or phone within a period of two days after the speed dating. The matched couple will be provided with phone numbers for them to have a chance where, and when to meet each other. Unfortunately, those who are caught up with work don t have the time to mingle with others in bars and parties which is why many prefer speed dating especially in the city of Chicago. Speed dating allows the person to meet someone and talk about different things for 10 to 15 minutes each. A scorecard is there to rate the individual and if both parties feel the same way, perhaps this could become the start of something big. Speed dating became popular in the United States after the introduction of the Jewish Rabbi Yaacov Deyo of Aish Ha Torah; who, in his observations, the Jewish singles were outnumbered by the non-Jewish, and that they should meet each other in groups, in cities where single Jewish are fewer. The practiced has evolved general acceptance and went across other borders, and continents, and became a recent global practice. By the turn of he millennium, speed dating has become a by word in social circles especially after being portrayed in glamour shows like Sex and the City. The process of speed dating Speed dating start off with men and women on each side of the room. Each of these people will be given the chance to talk to the every member of the opposite sex in a series of short minute dates where they can talk about anything they want.