The speed dating organizers are only there to point you to the right direction it's up to you to find the means to get there. Montreal seems to be among the places where speed dating has become a full blown industry. You'll find a number of websites that cater to the needs of that particular market: Montreal singles looking for dates. It will be a good idea to come in 15 to 30 minutes before it begins to be able to get a drink and then look around. 8minutedating.com is another website that can help the individual find the better half. It does the same thing that other speed dating services done except that talking getting to know someone must be done in 8 minutes before it is time to move to the next table and meet someone new. Up-market bars sponsor the meeting exclusively of singles (they specialized more on unmarried males/females), ages 20 to 35 years old who are more adaptive of their personal choices and interests. A single individual could meet a group and decide his/her choice later, when it is more convenient and less awkward not to be so blunt in right-at the moment preference of one from the other. Another unique way of getting to know someone in the group is called Tableforsix.com. The organizers will get a party of six with similar interests in the hopes that something will develop within the group. There is no time pressure here unlike those of other speed dating services which happens in less than a few minutes. This gives them the opportunity to find compatible matches without having to concentrate on just one prospect. Speed dating also allows participants to put the getting to know you phase of a date up a notch. Although it may not be considered as a normal date for some, speed dating allows people to have the chance of getting to know other singles before they ever commit to go on an actual date. Studies have shown that looking happy has an amazing effect on others which just goes to show that first impressions last. During the conversation, the person should be honest and learn to be oneself the whole time. The individual may find the one on the opposite end interesting but should not feel bad if the other party does not feel the same.