To make matters worse, one may have to go through these several disaster dates before hitting the jackpot and finding someone we actually can click with. The problem is, it often feels like hopeless optimism to think that you may ever find "the one" especially after your personal history of disaster dates. Various reasons lie behind each individual, and causes always go to the basic instinct in humans, "gregariousness" in relation to his environment. The need to socialize, and the core, is to get an intimate dealing with another of his kind; a friend, a life partner, or whoever may suit his need. Perhaps, this is because the idea of speed dating is more viable and much more needed now than before. Speed dating, to those who are still clueless about the system, is a matchmaking process wherein people will meet and have a chance to talk for a short period of time. Often, people who join speed dating events are those who are also on the lookout for potential partners and relationships. Daters (guys) move at random, and have three minutes to see each, and move on to the others. By the time you reach the last speed dater, you'll know by then the number that stands out as your preference. 4. This finalizes the forms with emphasis of choices, accomplished and submitted to the venue committee. It all depends on the organizers and the specific group attending the event. Events can be personalized catering to a specific age group, religious affiliation, work background, hobbies and interests, or particular or peculiar preferences. Such events are designed to increase the participant's chances of finding their match. However, traditional dating costs a lot of effort and time. You will need to invest a lot of yourself just to prospect dates in the first place. This investment in time and resources may not necessarily be the most efficient way to spice up your life with romance and love. First of all, you really may not have the time to waste.