The sad thing, in some of these cases, due to selfish motives of some negative minds, tragedies happen in the course of time during the couple's life if eventually, they passed thru to marriage stage. It doesn't happen in telltales, but are "real" happenings, that passed on global news updates. During the small talks, no one is allowed to give any numbers or other information apart from the names and other things that are not so personal. After everyone has talked to everybody, the organizers will then ask the participants to submit to the organizers the list of people that they really like and would like to get to know more. There will be a series of mini-dates that will last anywhere from 3 minutes to 8 minutes depending on the organizers of the speed dating event. They can ask any question or talk about any topic that they want. Often, even in these few minutes, they will be able to know if their personalities will click or not. Also, with speed dating you are at least assured of meeting people who are actually single and who are actually looking for a relationship. In bars and clubs, you can never really tell if the guy or girl is single and looking. If you're new in New York, speed dating is a good way to expand your very limited social circles. Speed Dating Getting Popular in Ottawa Just like any other place in the world, Ottawa is joining the newest movement, the speed dating movement that is. Ever since speed dating started in 1998, it has become a phenomenon has spread pretty much like a brush fire. Singles in Ottawa are lining up speed dating events hoping to find the match they are looking for in their lives. Latecomers will not be allowed to participate which will also give the person some time to look around. It will also be a good idea to dress well and be honest when having a conversation because the individual only has a few minutes to leave a lasting impression. After the session, the person should take note whether anyone in the group is worth seeing on a date.