In the past, the prospective date would be known to the woman, or at least known by the woman's friends or relatives. In this instance, one could be relatively assured that their date would treat them well and behave like a gentleman. Today, though, the "blind date" can be an individual who has actively misled the woman by falsifying his intentions, past bad behaviors, and even criminal convictions. The pain withdrawal reflex for this point causes the arm to straighten. You can easily put the attacker into an arm lock or pull the elbow down as you bring up your knee. This can be doubled up with a brain shake. Using two fingers bent like a fist, hit your attacker in the at an angle into the occipital nerve right at the temple. Although one may not want to inflict injury, a course in women's self defense can enable one to escape a perilous situation. Some women may not feel that they are excluded access to a women's self-defense class; however this is often not true. Many communities have athletic gymnasiums which offer martial arts classes or even specific women's self defense courses. Women's self defense instructors advocate that you defend yourself and run, but if your are kidnapped you probably will have to deal with a life threatening situation immediately. If you feel comfortable and safe in doing it, attack the driver right out. Stick your fingernails in his eyes. Bite him in the arm or face. The single woman who is having an early dinner with friends may believe her parking spot is ideal because it secluded and her new car will not be damaged. However, upon exiting the restaurant at a later time, she now finds that her car is in a dark and dangerous place. It is imperative that a woman look at the environment she places herself in. The claim that you have a weapon and the fact that you are looking at their face may be enough to stop it. If you are able to pick them out in a line up, they probably will leave you alone. Your voice is the most effective weapon. Scream and scream loud. Use a whistle or other noise maker to draw attention to yourself and your situation.