You must now take responsibility. Does this mean that you are responsible for your child s death? No it means you are responsible for becoming the person you are today. Your child s death was what cause you to become a bitter person, your child s death caused you to become so grief stricken you let your life fall apart. So keep all words positive so that the subconscious mind will grasp only on to the positive and this will be what follows over into the conscious mind. Positive phrases can be along the lines of, "I am a great athlete", "I am proficient in my abilities as an athlete", "I can win the game", "I am a strong athlete". To your right is the path that will take you to a table full of healthy foods and to the path to the left will take you to a table of junk food. Now imagine yourself taking the path to the right. As you walk toward the table that is on the path you have chosen you need to use positive messaging so that your subconscious wraps itself around this positive change. Well that will be a thing of the past as you work your way through understanding how to teach your wonderful talent with others. The first thing you will want to do is use your self hypnosis talents on the person that you intend to teach this method to. Use all your favorite inductions and positive messages on your intended student. When you are learning about self hypnosis, you are going to hear many terms and even hear about many different techniques that are associated with hypnosis and self hypnosis. You may fear trying self hypnosis in the beginning because you don't want to harm your mind. Do not worry about fumbling around learning self hypnosis and hurting yourself, you are completely safe during this time. Self hypnosis started out as hypnosis in which you needed a hypnotist to hypnotize you. This was done for psychological treatment. At first it was under scrutiny but in 1954 it was recognized as a valid form of therapy. This paved the way for the many other trends in hypnosis that we would soon see coming.